Business By Hormozi #65: Future-Focused Friends—The Rule of Success

Two Friends, Two Directions

Michael and James had been best friends since childhood. They had shared countless memories, from school pranks to late-night conversations about life. But as they grew older, something started to change.

Michael was ambitious—always thinking about his future, setting new goals, and working hard to improve his life. He wanted to build something meaningful and create success for himself.

James, on the other hand, was stuck in the past. Every conversation revolved around old stories, past mistakes, and regrets. He never spoke about his dreams, only about what could have been.

One evening, while they were out for coffee, Michael excitedly shared his new business idea. “I’ve been working on this concept, and I think it could really take off,” he said.

James laughed. “Dude, remember when you tried that last project, and it didn’t work? You always dream too big.”

Michael realized something in that moment—he was surrounded by someone who kept pulling him backward.

Future-Focused Friends—The Rule of Success

The people you spend time with either push you forward or hold you back. If your conversations are filled with regrets and nostalgia rather than visions and possibilities, you’re in the wrong company.

Michael knew that if he wanted to grow, he needed to be around people who talked about his future, not his past.

So, he started surrounding himself with mentors, entrepreneurs, and ambitious people who believed in progress, not just memories.

Why Your Circle Determines Your Future

• Your environment shapes your mindset. If you’re around people who focus on growth, you’ll adopt the same mindset.

• Negativity is contagious. If your friends always bring up the past, you’ll find yourself stuck there too.

• Successful people discuss ideas, not regrets. The best conversations happen with those who are moving forward, not looking back.

Months later, Michael’s business was thriving. He had supportive, forward-thinking friends who pushed him toward his goals. James, however, was still stuck in the same cycle—talking about the past while watching others move ahead.

The Lesson: Your Future Depends on Who You Surround Yourself With

If you want to grow, choose your circle wisely.

Be around people who talk about your potential, not your past mistakes.

Surround yourself with those who challenge you to dream bigger, work harder, and believe in your success.

Because your future is shaped by the conversations you have and the people you have them with.

Conclusion

The past is a place of reference, not residence.

If your circle only reminds you of where you’ve been, it’s time to find Friends that is Future-Focused